Empathy

One thing that I truly appreciate is empathy. So far, I’ve been blessed with amazing family members, friends, and neighbors who are great at being understanding and considerate when it comes to my children’s allergies. Whenever they visit, they try to avoid allergens at least 4 hours before coming over and never bring any allergens to my home. Also, they wash their hands and mouths when they arrive. If we are the ones visiting, they wipe surfaces to make sure there is no allergen protein residue and put away any food product containing dairy, peanuts & tree nuts. If they happen to have had contact with any of the allergens while we are present, they make sure to wash their hand thoroughly to make sure there’s no allergic reaction. Finally, if we have been invited to their home and they feel like offering us anything to eat, they are kind enough to call me beforehand and ask if we can eat whatever it is that they are offering.

On the other hand, I am grateful when someone that’s not willing to give up those allergens when we are around tells me about it. This way, I make sure we’re extra careful when meeting up with him/her.  I am never trying to be an inconvenience; I am only trying to avoid allergic reactions. But the mere fact that you are honest enough and let me know helps to keep my children safe.

Now, when one of my friends or family members goes out of their way to bring me an allergy-friendly product, it makes me happy. This is exactly what happened when we were on our trip in Puerto Rico. My mom’s friend, Angie, knew about Penny’s allergy and while she was shopping in Marshalls stumbled upon Dr. Lucy’s Chocolate Chip Cookies. These cookies are peanut, tree nut, milk, egg and gluten free. Its box says that they test for milk, gluten, peanut, almond, hazelnut and walnut traces in their ingredients and never allow those items in their bakery or warehouse, which gave me a sense of security when offering these treats to my children.  Oh! They’re also Non-GMO. ☺ A physician, who’s also the mother of a child with food allergies created this brand. She states in the cookie box that she built her own bakery to make these treats because she  “know[s] how difficult it can be to find high-quality snacks that taste great”. I agree, at least the chocolate chip cookies, have a rich and delightful taste. What can I say? The cookies were gone that same day. I can’t wait to find more of these delicious treats.

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To all of you that have been kind enough to accommodate my children’s needs, you know who you are, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have no idea how much easier and less stressful this makes my day.  For me, it is not about convenience, but about not risking my children’s health and lives.